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Khadija bint Khuwaylid
First believer, Mother of the Believers
The first wife of the Prophet and one of the first Muslims ; she was the first person to support Islam with her wealth and her trust. She was born in 556 at Mecca. Her father Khuwaylid b. Asad was among the notables of Quraysh; her mother was Fâtima bint Zâ'ida. Both lines join the Prophet's lineage through Qusayy and Lu'ayy b. Ghâlib. Before Islam she was called Tâhira (the pure) for her virtue. Before the Prophet she had two marriages: first to AbĂť Hâla Hind b. Zurâra, then to 'AtĂŽq b. 'Ăbid al-MakhzĂťmĂŽ. After her second husband's death she formed trading partnerships with people she trusted; she made her proposal to the Prophet upon what she had heard of his integrity and character. When they married she was forty and the Prophet about twenty-five. The dower was 500 dirhams (in one report 400), or according to some sources twenty camels. The marriage was contracted through the negotiation of her uncle 'Amr b. Asad with AbĂť Tâlib. When the Prophet returned trembling from Hira after his encounter with Gabriel, it was KhadĂŽja who reassured him: she said, "By God, God will never disgrace you" , and enumerated his care for his kin, his truthfulness and his help to the needy. She then took him to her cousin Waraqa b. Nawfal , a Christian scholar, who confirmed that the one who had come was Gabriel and that he was a prophet. KhadĂŽja thereupon said, "I testify that you are the Messenger of God." She is one of the first three Muslims, together with the Prophet and 'AlĂŽ b. AbĂŽ Tâlib. During the roughly three years (617-620) in which Quraysh besieged the Muslims in the quarter of AbĂť Tâlib she endured the hardship alongside him and spent her wealth for the cause of Islam. Her children were: Qâsim (who lived only two years; the Prophet took the kunya AbĂť'l-Qâsim from him), Zaynab , Ruqayya , Umm KulthĂťm and Fâtima ; also Tayyib and Tâhir, who died before the prophetic mission â some sources count these two as the same child. She died on 10 Ramadan (19 April 620), about three years before the emigration. About a month after her death the Prophet's uncle AbĂť Tâlib also died; that year came to be called the year of sorrow (senetĂź'l-hĂźzn). Her Circle of Influence â The Prophet took no other wife during her lifetime, and after her death he never forgot her. The source relates that Gabriel brought her greetings from God and from himself and gave her the good tidings of a palace of pearl in Paradise. The Prophet's words about her are summed up thus: she believed when people disbelieved; she confirmed him when people denied him; she supported him with her wealth when no one gave; and God granted him children through her. It is related that when her sister Hâla asked leave to enter, the Prophet was moved because her voice resembled KhadĂŽja's. Her Tomb and Complex â She was buried in the HajĂťn cemetery (later known as Jannat al-Mu'allâ ). The shrine erected over her grave by SĂźleyman the Magnificent was demolished in 1926, when Mecca came under Saudi administration.